What does patriotism mean to you?

The definition of “patriotism” according to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary is “love for or devotion to one's country.” Is that what it means to you? Now, I have heard in the media many claim that patriotism is questioning, criticizing or outright opposing our government and/or its policies. I suppose one could argue that they love this country so much that to question, criticize or oppose our government or its policies is a response to a wrong course of action. That does sound reasonable.

However, let's look at the dictionary definition of patriotism a little more closely. Using the same source, “love” means affection based on admiration, benevolence or common interest and “devotion” means the fact or state of being ardently dedicated and loyal.

Can someone tell me how it is patriotic to compare our military's actions in Iraq and Afghanistan to that of the terrorists or to claim that somehow the actions of both are morally equivalent? Can someone explain to me that when our government takes certain actions to protect our country from further terrorist acts, such as interrogations, surveillance and detainment of enemies trying to kill Americans, we are vilified and looked upon as worse than the terrorists themselves? That does not seem to be a response based on admiration, benevolence (i.e., kindness) or common interest. That does not seem to be a response from someone who is ardently dedicated or loyal to our country. That's because it isn't. That's not patriotism, no matter how you look at it or try to sugarcoat it.

Look, no is saying that we should blindly follow our leaders and no one is saying that the United States can do no wrong. Clearly if we as a country engage in immoral or illegal conduct, then someone must put a stop to it. But let's call a spade a spade. If you are of the ilk that believe our country's actions since September 11th have been immoral and illegal, then stand up and say so. Be proud to say, “darn right, I'm not being patriotic at the moment because I disagree with the path we are on.” Then vote for the leaders you feel will put us on the right path. But whatever you do, please don't hope that our country loses a war, don't compare the brave men and women of our military to terrorists who not only hate America but would like to see every one of us dead, and lastly don't say that you are being patriotic if you do.